Pretty spot-on…see the tactics used in what so far is the most-commented-on Facebook post I’ve ever made: https://www.facebook.com/rev.jasonq.sheppardhoffmann/posts/10151986810432734

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Today is a very special day, and not just because it’s a national holiday. No, much more importantly,  I have a guest contributor for this post. Yes, this means that there are now twice as many blog authors here as there are readers, but you know, it’s all about the quality here at Skewed Distribution. So let’s give a warm welcome to Chillin’ Out Vaxin, Relaxin’ All Cool, also known as COVRAC, who can usually be found at his most excellent Facebook page.

Anyway, COVRAC and I decided to write about the phenomenon known as the Anti-Vaxxer Arc. This occurs when an anti-vaxxer gets overly-excited, decides to invade a pro-vax page, and graces its denizens with his or her mad science skillz. I know you are familiar with this scene, reader, as the basic structure rarely varies. But just for fun, here are the steps you need…

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As social networking becomes more prevalent — at times seeming to be an even more efficient method of communication than e-mail — unspoken rules for etiquette and expected behaviors have developed, similar to any tradition that permeates a society.  Many of us now utilize e-mail in the workplace, and as such may have had to adapt our usual style of communication in this medium to sound more “appropriate” and “proper.”  Not surprisingly, social networking has followed a similar path as businesses, politicians, nonprofit organizations, churches, and so on have begun using Facebook and Twitter.  But still interpersonal communications, depending on the “friend” you are conversing with, have a varying degree of formality…you might communicate in “txt-speak” with people you frequently text, but employ more of a written-out style with your aunts, uncles, and grandparents, and if you are responsible for maintaining a company profile (like a “Page” on Facebook), you may have to use the highest level of formal communication, as well as police and censor undesirable comments and opinions of anyone who has access to the profile (i.e. EVERYONE if you do business with the general public!).

Having recently celebrated my 32nd birthday, the inevitable onslaught of celebratory comments ensued, numbering around 80 total over about a 36-hour period.  I have never received education or training in Facebook Manners, but common sense and past experience instructed me to ensure I went through and clicked “Like” on each comment, also replying to some of the more thoughtful ones.  I mentioned this unwritten etiquette dictating my behavior to my wife (whose birthday was a week prior to mine), and she agreed that she felt compelled to do likewise for all her well-wishers (“but I only got 60, no fair!”).  It’s just what you do, unless you’re an asshole troll or someone who has been morally opposed to the “Like” button since its implementation.

In a similar vein, our need to express certain emotions has spilled out onto social networking sites, and here I would like to point out the phenomenon of online eulogizing and grieving.  I should note that I have not personally experienced this, but have observed it with many friends who had loved ones pass away recently.  I knew none of the deceased I will comment on, and only observed those that were public profiles and public comments (in other words, I did no hacking or infiltration of private profiles, and in fact didn’t even take screenshots of those that were public, simply to protect my friends and their families; besides, screenshots aren’t necessarily pertinent to this observation, since I’m sure most of you have seen or engaged in this behavior by now).  Also, I was completely unaware of this article on the subject until I typed this blog and saw it in the “Related Articles” section, and it is far better researched than my simple blog, so please click through and read if this post piques your interest in the phenomenon.

John Smith changed his mortality status.

Over the past several months, tragedies have befallen many of my Facebook friends, mainly consisting of young people losing their lives entirely too soon.  Many of my friends are mutual friends, and thus I was able to view the grieving and condolences by a number of people for only a few deaths (I think I remember 3 or 4 in total, but again I took no notes of names).  Often the deceased’s profile was linked to these comments — as happens when you start typing one of your friend’s names — and I naturally clicked through to witness this peculiarity.  Well, I think it’s peculiar, or at least I did once I really started thinking about it.

In looking over the comments on the Walls of these unfortunate folks, the obvious lacking feature was that of the deceased “Liking” all of the comments that the living typically “Like” (such as the aforementioned birthday wishes or other congratulatory remarks).  In some cases, I noticed people posting memories weeks to a month after the death, things like, “I was just at X and remembered when you used to go there with me,” or “I heard Y on the radio and thought of you,” etc.  I started wondering about how people would latch onto a site like Facebook, but only for dead people…Gravebook, if you will, and for lack of a better name at the moment.  Maybe even Facebook would get on board with this idea and help to transfer the profiles over into this new realm of the online afterlife (in fact, I even envisioned the profiles looking similar to the typical FB profile, but “grayed out” — in a fashion similar to that used by the best disc golf course website with “extinct” courses).  I actually think that this would provide a thoughtful and accepted outlet for grieving, especially in our globally connected generation; an option for loved ones separated by great distances to do the equivalent of planting flowers at a grave or making a pencil rubbing of the epitaph.

I am certainly not looking forward to the day when one of my 500+ friends dies…in fact, many of my “friends” are online contacts made via common factors like disc golf and atheism, and friend counts that high tend to fluctuate (someone deletes their account or “unfriends” you for something you posted), so I can’t say with absolute certainty that someone on my friend list hasn’t died.  I just know that the 90% of the people I’m close to, including old friends I haven’t seen since childhood and still care about, are on Facebook, and death is inescapable.  A grim observation, but pertinent here.  As far as posting on their Wall(s), I will not participate in this behavior for the same reason that I don’t visit graves or engage in other prolonged public grieving…since I don’t believe in the existence of souls or an afterlife, my view is that they won’t be reading or appreciating my thoughtful Tweets, so why bother?  I prefer to remember, perhaps make a toast with friends at times when we recall them, look at old photographs and smile, that kind of sentimental stuff.  But to each his own.

Oh, and I’ll expect credit if anyone successfully uses “Gravebook.”

Thanks to my philosophy professor and his awesome free-will-themed PHI101 course, I’ve become more conscious of incidents in everyday life that really call into question this “unsophisticated” view of the will, and it’s refreshing to have at least one professor who is a determinist (here’s the blog detailing the view of my other professor who thinks that determinism is largely “out of favor”).  Anyways, so now I’m cognizant of these no doubt oft-overlooked events, and I’d like to share a recent example that was rather significant, or at least I thought so.

I was at home the other day and about to do some homework, but realized I had left my books in the car.  I headed outside to retrieve them.

My minivan on that day was parked similarly to in the photo below (I staged this for illustrative purposes), so it’s obvious that the passenger door was closest, and thus would require the least exertion in accessing the interior of my vehicle.  HOWEVER — before I got all the way to the passenger door, I realized (approximately at Point A below) that all doors except the driver’s side were locked (I knew this because this model has doors that auto-lock when engaged in drive and then only unlock when opened from the inside or the “unlock all” switch is triggered, and I was the only one in the van when I parked it; thus, only that door would be accessible).  Simple, concise, “terminate command” orders sent directly to the motherboard — “Don’t bother, it’s locked, and you knew that the whole time but just decided to tell me now!”  Curiously, my body kept moving on its original trajectory and continued on to what I have labeled Point B, the locked door.  I then proceeded to pull on the handle, a real WTF moment, to phrase it like all those hip kids today.  It was only after I had gone through these fruitless motions that I found myself on the proper path, towards Point C, where I collected my stuff and returned inside, slightly baffled by what had just happened.  I should note that my backpack was in the center of the front seat, equidistant from either door, so there was no other benefit to retrieving it from the passenger side other than the external convenience afforded by my parking angle.

The yellow line shows my approach to the vehicle. At Point A, I realize that the passenger door is locked; regardless, I continue on to Point B and carry out the action, and THEN proceed to Point C, the point which I technically "willed" myself towards as the thought entered my mind at Point A but I for some reason was unable to immediately act on.

After this incident, I retrospectively thought of other similar incidents where I had carried out some “thoughtless” action despite a conflicting thought, but this event was a true catalyst in my thinking on this problem, compounded by Dr. White’s philosophical offerings.  It might seem to some that I’m just looking way too much into this, but I’d like to preemptively address anticipated concerns that there is a genuine problem for free will here: 

1) I was sober, so there was no drunken delayed motor response;
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I was moving at a casual pace, not sprinting, so forward momentum didn’t prevent me from stopping in time (and if it did, why would I still bother to try the handle?);
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Even at that casual pace, the time span from A to B in the picture is only a few steps (approximately a second?), and during this time I did not experience any conscious overtly conflicting thoughts like, “Noooo!!  Why am I still moving forward?  I don’t want to do this!!!  Stop it, body, STOP IT!”

I started thinking about the Libet experiments and a proposed modification to the experiment suggested by V.S. Ramachandran in A Brief Tour of Human Consciousness:

It’s almost as though your brain is really in charge and your ‘free will’ is just a post-hoc rationalization — a delusion, almost…This alone is strange enough, but what if we add another twist to the experiment.  Imagine I’m monitoring your EEG while you wiggle your finger…I will see a readiness potential a second before you act.  But suppose I display the signal on a screen in front of you so that you can see your free will.  Every time you are about to wiggle your finger, supposedly using your own free will, the machine will tell you a second in advance!  What would you now experience?

Ramachandran goes on to list “three logical possibilities” to what one would experience in that scenario, but I now propose (and perhaps this has already been proposed, or even done? — please point me to the literature if possible!) another modification to the experiment by not only instructing the subject to carry out a simple task, but by then instructing them to disregard the command and instead carry out a contrary action, like a controlled version of what I experienced (and, of course, an externally implanted conflict, unlike the internal “change of intent” that I encountered on that day).

Neuroscience continues to reveal truths about ourselves in aspects that have been debated for millennia, and it seems that we are currently living in a new renaissance with neuroscience and technology producing exponential knowledge, and perhaps moving towards blurring the line between the two.

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“Is anyone among you sick?  Let them call the elders of the church to pray over them and anoint them with oil in the name of the Lord.  And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up.  If they have sinned, they will be forgiven.  Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.  The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.”  ~~  Jesus Christ (James 5:14-16)

“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.”  ~~ Constitution of the United States, First Amendment

In a war-ravaged country several thousand miles away, a child has been abducted from his village (along with all other children old enough to walk and talk) and indoctrinated by a militant rebellion.  Once suitably trained, he is armed with an automatic rifle, assigned to a battalion consisting of other children roughly his age – 12, maybe 13 years old, including girls – and sent onto a battlefield consisting of villages indistinguishable from his original home.  This youth infantry is sent forth on the front lines to massacre the residents with firepower that American children their age know only from video games – a tactic that works for a short while, before the entire platoon of preadolescents is in turn wiped out by the ruling army’s snipers and rocket launchers, as well as strategic placement of landmines throughout the village.

Meanwhile here in the United States, a preverbal toddler writhes in his crib, obviously distressed, his ill condition further evidenced by frequent vomiting and sluggishness.  Unable to vocalize his complaints other than through crying incessantly, these manifestations are the only signals to his care providers – his parents – that something is wrong.  The parents look down into the crib, noticeably worried about their child’s worsening condition, yet willing to relinquish their nurturing role to another person present in the room, a faith healer from their church.  The toddler begins convulsing, which the faith healer praises as proof of the prayers working (in fact, the child’s brain is swelling).  When the parents begin to doubt these claims of improvement – doubts further bolstered by the fact that their child refuses to eat and cries incessantly – the faith healer accuses them of having weak faith or “obstructing sins” interfering with the healing.  After weeks of progressive deterioration, the parents decide to abandon the faith-healing process and seek expert medical care.  Based on the presenting symptoms, the emergency staff immediately suspects meningitis and orders a spinal tap, which confirms their fears.  Compounding this bad news is the fact that this is a case of Haemophilus influenzae type B (HiB) meningitis, which unlike viral meningitis requires early identification and quick intervention with intravenous antibiotics in order to reduce mortality.  Unfortunately for this child, his parents’ decision to shun medical treatment in favor of intercessory prayer has contributed to his ultimate demise:  Unable to be treated effectively, the disease has caused irreversible brain damage, and the child spends his final moments wasting away in a pediatric intensive care unit, eventually succumbing to the disease.

The first instance above is reflective of a real-world scenario – in this case, the atrocities occurring in various regions of East and Central Africa (the example is drawn from a typical story of how the Lord’s Resistance Army – a Christian paramilitary organization – recruits its child soldiers).  The subsequent paragraph is an approximate account of what happened to Rita Swan’s toddler son (see Seth Asser and Rita Swan in Pediatrics (1998) and Dr. Stephen Barrett’s “Matthew Swan”).  Ms. Swan, once a devout Christian Scientist, had put off medical treatment for her ailing child because of the church’s insistence of the efficacy of prayer.  While not much comparison can be made between the above two scenarios, one important facet is shared by these anecdotes, and that is the death of a child (extrapolating from these examples, one can see that deaths of children – plural – is thus implied); furthermore, the deaths in these cases were the direct result of mystical beliefs, and the immensely different worlds in which they take place (Sub-Saharan African/Christian hybrid religions on one hand, and evangelical Christianity popular in middle-class America on the other) demonstrate that the malignant effects of religious belief have no socioeconomic boundaries.

The founding ideals of the Establishment Clause will be revisited and assessed throughout the course of this research paper.  Religious freedom is one of the many social and political freedoms afforded to United States citizens, and we have long implicitly defined “citizen” as an adult who is “entitled to the rights and privileges of a freeman,” trusting parents in our society to raise their children with the same respect to individual rights that we afford them as citizens.  Thus, any paper on the topic of children of religious parents should give at least a nod to the First Amendment, if not explicitly scrutinizing its meaning(s) and implications in the America of today, where it seems religion is always making headlines and under the perpetually watchful eye of civil rights groups and social organizations.

One inescapable reality of childrearing, either now or at any time in the past, is the fact that kids will get sick and parents will have to decide on an appropriate course of treatment.  In modern Western civilizations, the common and accepted practice is to seek the advice of a medical provider such as a doctor or nurse when symptoms warrant or, based on experience and knowledge, choose to monitor the illness and self-treat with traditional methodologies (such as over-the-counter preparations or “watchful waiting”).   Not every little cough or elevated temperature is cause for concern, of course, as the human immune system has amazing capabilities for not only warding off infections and fighting disease, but for incredible feats of self-repair even without expert medical involvement.  Furthermore, the role of parent carries with it the societal expectation that child abuse and neglect are simply unacceptable and are indeed grounds for various degrees of punishment tailored to the severity of the offense, so if not simply for the sake of being a nurturing parent, one has the added incentive to avoid legal repercussions and societal sanctions.

For a small proportion of religious followers, doctrine trumps everything, including personal well-being or the well-being of one’s children.  The material and the earthly (such as drugs) are rejected in certain denominations, and adherents are either admonished against seeking “secular” assistance (like going to the doctor) in lieu of the church’s preferred approach or, in the more extreme sects, are completely barred from addressing health issues via non-faith-based routes at the risk of being ostracized.  In this paper, the primary focus will be on two specific Christian denominations that have made headlines frequently over the years because of their stance on faith healing:  The Church of Christ, Scientist, and the Followers of Christ, both founded in the late 19th century in the United States.  Notably, the Followers of Christ are an offshoot of the Pentecostal branch, which is known for its display of “glossolalia,” or speaking in tongues.

How “free” are practitioners of religious faiths?  Does the First Amendment extend protection to someone whose religion mandates human sacrifice? Different kinds of religious rights in the United States have had to be ultimately defined by the Supreme Court.   The first case of significance to this research is Reynolds v. United States (1878), in which the Court stated that while it could not legislate against religious belief, it could do so against actions carried out because of a deeply held religious conviction, agreeing with Thomas Jefferson that allowing bigamy (the religious freedom on trial in this particular instance) created a slippery slope, where someone could theoretically profess a belief in human sacrifice and expect the freedom to carry out such a ritual, and allowing such broad and unregulated freedom would undermine the law of the land and give religion more power than the established government (more on the “Moriah problem” later).

Fast forwarding nearly a century, one will encounter the well-known State of Wisconsin v. Yoder (1972), where the Court sided unanimously with the Amish community and stated that Amish children could not be compelled by the government (local, state, or otherwise) to receive public education beyond eighth grade.  Of note in the Yoder case is the dissenting opinion of Justice William O. Douglas who, although siding with the Court, had this to say:  “I disagree with the Court’s conclusion that the matter is within the dispensation of parents alone.  The Court’s analysis assumes that the only interests at stake in the case are those of the Amish parents on the one hand, and those of the State on the other.  The difficulty with this approach is that, despite the Court’s claim, the parents are seeking to vindicate not only their own free exercise claims, but also those of their high-school-age children…. On this important and vital matter of education, I think the children should be entitled to be heard.”  While this case set precedence for religious freedom, it also severely undermined the rights of children, with the Court asserting that the parents’ First Amendment rights were on trial here, not the children’s, in regards to Justice Douglas’s statement.

Notably, there have been instances where religious organizations have made concessions to secular law (whether obligated to concede by courtroom defeat, or agreeing to conform for the greater good is irrelevant, as the most defiant denominations or individuals will ignore even Supreme Court rulings).  In Wisconsin v. Yoder (1972), while we found that the court saw no constitutional reason to force Amish children to receive public education, the Amish have agreed to furnish their horse-drawn carriages with “Slow Moving Vehicle” reflective triangles in exchange for their opportunity to utilize the thoroughfares designed for motor vehicles (of unrelated significance, a sect of Amish have refused to display said triangle and have thus continued to tie up courts in their regions, reflecting the defiant attitude that the most separatist of religions have been observed to display).  Another oft-cited case, Prince v. Massachusetts (1944), ruled that parental authority is “not absolute” and that while parents were free to make martyrs of themselves, “The family itself is not beyond regulation in the public interest, as against a claim of religious liberty.  And neither the rights of religion nor the rights of parenthood are beyond limitation…The right to practice religion freely does not include the right to expose the community or the child to communicable disease or the latter to ill-health or death…”  While this one ruling would seem to provide the government all the constitutional power required to remove children from homes where they are in imminent danger due to neglect, state laws offer varying exemptions  and protections regarding child abuse and neglect on religious grounds.

Of all the studies, trials, and research done to test claims of the efficacy of faith healing, prayer, and other religious-based therapies, one particular journal article sticks out (and, in fact, is cited in nearly every future paper covering this topic) – that of Asser and Swan’s “Child Fatalities From Religion-Motivated Medical Neglect,” a paper which analyzed the deaths of 172 children of faith-healing parents and found that “[140] fatalities were from conditions for which survival rates with medical care would have exceeded 90%.  Eighteen more had expected survival rates of >50%.  All but 3 of the remainder would likely have had some benefit from clinical help.”  The authors conclude that “existing laws may be inadequate to protect children from this form of medical neglect…[as] contacts with public agencies and mandated reporters of suspected child neglect were not unusual among the children.”  A 2006 Family Court Review journal article found that since the original 1998 study, Ms. Swan had learned of “more than 100 additional cases,” although conceded that this was not an actual number and that it would be impossible to get precise data (Hirasawa, 2006).

Almost as horrifying as the hard data on these innocent deaths is the anecdotal evidence provided by former practitioners (both that of faith-healing parents like Ms. Swan, as well as the children who suffered under their delusions, sometimes for decades into adulthood) and the eyewitness accounts of well-meaning citizens like teachers and neighbors who wanted or tried to help endangered children, but were powerless in the face of such a powerful abstract entity like that of Religious Freedom.  Take, for instance, the introduction of a 2004 research paper by Kenneth S. Hickey and Laurie Lyckholm:  “In late Fall of 1992…[Andrew], a twelve-year-old seventh grader…began to experience lethargy, weight loss, and frequent urination.  Andrew began to complain to his father and paternal grandmother about his symptoms on or about December 14, 1992.  His father, a Christian Scientist, felt his son’s symptoms were transient and made little attempt to address the issue.  By December 17, 1992, Andrew was emaciated, vomiting, and eating little.  His father contacted a Christian Science practitioner who provided healing prayer without actually coming to see Andrew.  By December 20, 1992, Andrew experienced altered mental status and total exhaustion.  A Christian Science nurse was called to the family home.  Upon her arrival, Andrew was making no eye contact, was unresponsive, and had rapid, deep respirations.  At this time, Andrew’s father decided to abandon spiritual healing and called 911.  Andrew was transported to the nearest hospital and was pronounced dead. The medical examiner deemed the death to be the result of complications associated with juvenile diabetes.”

What kind of protections do faith-healing parents enjoy?  The laws vary from state to state, and Ronald Bullis, in a 1991 paper published in Child Welfare, goes through each state and lists the statutory citations (where applicable) for legal exemptions in cases of medical neglect; at the time of his article (notably two decades ago), he found that “[47] of the 50 states have statutes that ostensibly exempt from prosecution parents who treat their children’s serious illnesses by spiritual means alone.  Although states have imposed limitations upon this exemption, this excuse is still offered as a defense in the death of children (1991).  Thus, one parent who allows his or her child to die of a treatable condition in one particular jurisdiction may receive an exemption, whereas in a different state they may be convicted; however, the number of convictions and severity of convictions, while increasing of late, still pales in comparison to other crimes against children resulting in death, and often the convicted parents appeal or receive reduced sentences because the intent to deliberately cause harm to their children is nearly impossible to establish in a faith defense.  Hirasawa (2006) provides updates on some of the exemptions, noting that “life-threatening conditions” in some jurisdictions allows the state to intervene against the parents’ wishes.

A key component in the fight to change existing laws granting seemingly unconditional exemptions to allow children to perish at the hands of the tenets of their parents’ faith is education, namely education on the origins of disease and the varying course that pathologies can take.  Ignorance and naiveté in health matters no doubt causes some well-meaning parents to misinterpret what is actually going on in their children.  Terence Hines in Pseudoscience and the Paranormal describes known phenomena of disease that can be misleading, notably the notorious “placebo effect” as well as “a nasty little statistical gremlin” known as “regression to the mean,” which basically explains the waxing-and-waning course of many chronic illnesses.  While these and other factors can lead to clouded judgment on the part of the observer (parents in this case), Hines takes the stance that faith healers kill people by falsely convincing them of a cure, leading them to believe medical follow-up is unnecessary.  While Hines attacks the faith-healing institution as a whole, he does focus on children when discussing the beliefs of the Church of Christ, Scientist (one of several Christian denominations engaging in faith healing):  “Parents are forbidden to take their children, no matter how sick, to legitimate physicians, but must let them be treated solely by Christian Science practitioners.  As might be expected, this has resulted in the deaths of Christian Scientist children from diseases that could have been treated, and the child’s life saved, had medical attention been provided.  The Church…along with many other fundamentalist sects and cults…argues that it is parents’ right to withhold legitimate medical treatment from their children and that they should not be prosecuted…when children die from the lack of such treatment” (Hines, 2003).  Not only do faith healers enjoy the various exemptions described by Bullis (1991), but “the Church of Christ, Scientist, lobbies vigorously when attempts are made to eliminate such exemptions” (Hines, 2003).

Is there any foreseeable compromise to this issue?  Religious practitioners in the United States will more than likely continue to use the First Amendment to justify their actions (or lack thereof), but how lenient are we as a society willing to be with interpretation of our Bill of Rights?  Other amendments have been debated with as much fervor and intensity as the First, and there is always the argument that our founding documents are not open to reinterpretation based on changing norms and mores in society, as well as the argument that we should reinterpret these fundamental papers as often as is necessary.  Legal arguments aside, another issue needing to be addressed is the actual efficacy of prayer and faith healing, and the literature on this is rather lacking; indeed, the “top” studies “proving” these methods work proffer no more than anecdotal evidence and subjective accounts of what could best be described as placebo effect.  Hines (2003) examines several studies dating back to 1872 regarding allegations of the efficacy of intercessory prayer; empirical data suggests that prayer either has no measurable effect greater than that of control groups, although of significance is that in some studies where groups thought they were being prayed for (that is, they knew prayer was being conducted, whether or not they were actually part of the study group),subjective reports of improvement  were deemed supportive of prayer’s effectiveness.  In The God Delusion (2006), Richard Dawkins describes the Templeton Foundation-funded study that, as reported in the American Heart Journal of April 2006, showed “no difference between those who were prayed for and those who were not.  What a surprise.”  Stories of “miraculous” recoveries  are abundant, again reflective of the general public’s ignorance of disease processes (as evidenced by cases of spontaneous remission being touted as miracles) and the fact that modern medicine still has a lot of questions to answer.  One tactic that probably will not work – and the very idea smacks of an unethical approach – is preemptively removing children of these parents from their homes, although we are left with increasingly fewer options for protecting these children the more willing we are to grant unfettered freedom to religious followers.  Dr. Stephen Barrett, founder of the well-known medical fraud watchdog organization “Quackwatch,” also nicely summarizes studies on faith healing (“Some Thoughts About Faith Healing,” 2009), going on to conclude that “laws to protect children from medical neglect in the name of healing should be passed and enforced.  In states that allow religious exemptions…these exemptions should be revoked.  Maybe the practice of faith healing on minors should be illegal.”

In respecting religious freedom in this country, we have given religious parents free rein to brand their children as belonging to the same religion; in doing so, are we not disrespecting the children’s rights to choose and reject such doctrines as they see fit?  Surely some will argue that indoctrinating children is for their own good, for their eternal good, but such assertions fly in the face of reason when children are purposely denied life-saving or even symptom-alleviating treatments, and one has to question the mental stability of a parent who can sit by and do nothing (prayer, in this case, counts as “doing nothing”) while their child cries, asks for help, and begs for the suffering to stop.  Dawkins (2006) has lambasted religion in general, but in particular he attacks the assigning of religious identity to children:  “[T]he assumption that a six-year-old child can properly be said to have a religion at all…that baptizing an unknowing, uncomprehending child can change him from one religion to another at a stroke seems absurd – but it is surely not more absurd than labelling a tiny child as belonging to any particular religion in the first place.”

Children are dying as a direct result of parental religious convictions, and while progress is being made in the realm of offering legal protections to these innocent victims, it is nearly impossible to overlook the harm that has already been done – a quick perusal of the child fatalities on the website “What’s the Harm?” lists not only the reported cases of child deaths from faith healing, but also from exorcism, neglect due to preference for homeopathic or naturopathic remedies, the anti-vaccination movement, and other controversial faith-based therapies like “reparative therapy” for homosexual children.

So what kind of legal argument could be made to compel these religious parents to seek medical care when their children fall ill?  Prince v. Massachusetts (1944) clearly stated that freedom of religious expression “does not include the right to expose the community or the child to communicable disease or the latter to ill-health or death,” and recent convictions – actual prison sentences, not just probation – have given this question new life.  Writing the law will presumably be a tricky and lengthy endeavor, since a law targeting a specific religion or denomination would be discriminatory on the court’s part (see the Supreme Court-overturned municipal law outlawing animal sacrifice in Church of the Lukumi Babalu Aye v. City of Hialeah (1993), where the law was deemed to not cover all instances of animal cruelty, religious or not, which was its stated purpose).  States that have struck down previously existing religious exemptions for child abuse/neglect have tried different methods to protect children.  In a 1998 Time article by David Van Biema, he describes a type of passive monitoring of faith-healing religions (“requiring parents to alert authorities if their medical boycott endangered their children”) implemented by Minnesota in 1994:  “A check on the state’s biggest county shows that no one has self-reported.”  So even in states where laws have become stricter, most extremist sects are unlikely to comply with secular law when it interferes with their beliefs, thus making such measures futile.

Active monitoring of religious denominations known to engage in or encourage faith healing seems the most logical approach to preventing further child deaths from preventable diseases (recall the 172 deaths studied by Asser and Swan, of which 169 would have most likely have lived with proper medical intervention), as well as preemptively addressing the deliberate avoidance of child-health mandates.  Most health insurance companies will (in the very, very fine print in your benefits plan) have a list of excluded conditions – diseases that are covered under no circumstances, no matter how much you have paid in premiums over the years.  I would suggest similar terminology in writing our laws, but reversed – instead of excluded conditions, all citizens (to avoid the law being overturned as discriminatory against a particular sect) would need to be aware of “inclusive symptoms and conditions” that would require analysis and interpretation by a legitimate healthcare provider (a list that would obviously require perpetual amending, a daunting proposition in itself).  Since some of the perpetrating religions will go to great lengths to even avoid diagnosis (“diagnosis” being dependent on the analysis of a medical doctor), the law would need to cover telltale signs and symptoms that would need to be assessed if they persist for a certain time – thus, a public school student with persistent lethargy and an acetone or fruity odor about himself, and whose parents are Christian Scientists, would be legally required to seek medical care (the aforementioned symptoms are indicative of diabetic ketoacidosis, a very serious complication of untreated diabetes), and could be reported by any school official without fear of repercussions.   Anti-faith-healing legislation would also presumably need to include language to cover folk remedies such as complementary and alternative medicine (CAM), traditional Chinese medicine (TCM), exorcism, certain religious diets, and other prayer-centric faiths outside of Christianity.

Socially, great strides need to be made.  Our liberal culture has been willing to offer huge freedoms to a vast array of religions (even including animal sacrifice in Florida as noted in Lukumu Babalu Aye v. Hialeah), but at what cost?  To use an extreme hypothetical (at least, hypothetical to my knowledge):  What if a religion came forward called “Moriahinism,” after the Moriah mountains where Abraham was ordered to sacrifice his only son to God; what if the founding doctrine of this religion was that all adherents were to take their firstborn to the highest point within reach (understanding that not all followers will have access to the mountain of lore), bind them to an altar, and slaughter them with a sacrificial knife – unless, of course, an angel intervened at a crucial faith-defining moment?  This sounds like a ridiculous religion, but based on the inconsistency of American laws covering faith and the fact that the highest court in the land has ruled both in favor of and against religious expression, is it that inconceivable that someone could come forward tomorrow – with documentation that their religion has existed for at least a few generations and is thus “legitimate” – and demand the right to carry their children to a mountain for sacrifice?  Most of us would be appalled at the idea of permitting such a thing in our society, but “religious freedom” has become such an abstract concept that proponents tend to lump belief and expression into the same “right.”

My proposition is not to outlaw these extremist faiths, no matter how ideal that situation would be.  However, from a constitutional and human rights perspective, I feel that these children are entitled to the same rights as voting-age citizens, and as such should be permitted (even encouraged, but let’s start small!) to break free from the shackles of their parents’ faith in order to continue their earthly existence, no matter how trivial or insignificant said existence is deemed to be in the tenets of the family beliefs.  Furthermore, I fear that a society-wide branding of these faiths as “cults” could potentially lead to a congregation secluding itself indefinitely or worse, leading to either a domestic situation like the Branch Davidians in Waco, Texas, in 1993, or a church-wide exodus such as the Jonestown incident (while both of those examples are extreme, they highlight the degree to which a cult will go when completely ostracized by society).

After leaving Christian Science, Rita Swan went on to form Children’s Healthcare Is a Legal Duty (CHILD), an educational charity “founded in 1983 to protect children from harmful religious and cultural practices, especially religion-based medical neglect.  CHILD believes laws should protect all children equally and opposes religious exemptions from child health and safety laws.”  On the CHILD website, various databases catalogue the deaths of children due to religious beliefs and other “folk remedies,” and a quick perusal of the list under “religion-based medical neglect” shows a pattern – not only the usual suspects of Christian Science and Followers of Christ (as well as others like Jehovah’s Witnesses and the Amish), but a large proportion of the links to various trials and news reports indicate that religious exemptions permit these preventable deaths to occur (“Iowa religious exemption to lead screening,” “Foster child deprived of vaccines on religious grounds,” “Witness child allowed to die without transfusion”).  Since the time that Bullis (who, it should be noted, is a PhD legal scholar and a clergyman) published his paper in Child Welfare showing state-by-state religious exemptions, some states have changed the laws on their books, but advocates for stricter laws protecting children are still dissatisfied.  Thus, non-religious neglect is eagerly prosecuted (and rightfully so), but once religion enters the equation the courts are more prone to allow some measure of child suffering because of some fanciful, unverifiable thoughts floating around in the parents’ heads.

In cases of “religion-motivated medical neglect,” it is often difficult to show intent to cause harm to the child, as is often easily proven in cases of blatant child abuse; that is, a child who suffers from a treatable illness that is only treated with prayer will probably not display overt signs of trauma like belt buckle-shaped bruises or cigarette burns (to use oft-cited signs of some of the worst abuse), but despite the difference in intent, instances of faith healing and intentional assault share a glaring similarity – children suffer and occasionally die.

Perhaps the courts are not the solution.  Perhaps, as Daniel Dennett points out in Breaking the Spell: Religion as a Natural Phenomenon, the solution lies in society’s attitude:

How can we hope to compete with the promise of salvation and the glories of martyrdom?  We could lie, and make promises of our own that could never be fulfilled in this life or anywhere else, or we could try something more honest: we could suggest to them that the claims of any religion should, of course, be taken with a grain of salt.  We could start to change the climate of opinion that holds religion to be above discussion, above criticism, above challenge…if we start holding religious organizations accountable for their claims – not by taking them to court but just by pointing out, often and in a matter-of-fact tone of voice, that of course these claims are ludicrous – perhaps we can slowly get the culture of credulity to evaporate.

Or we can continue to stand by and allow religion to abduct children from the “village” of society, indoctrinate them, and send them to certain death…landmines or diabetes, what’s the difference?

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Sam Harris

Sam Harris, author of "Lying" and "The End of Faith"

This is one of the first essay assignments I had for my composition class.  Since I was pleased with the results and received an A on the paper, and since school has prevented me from blogging since my first entry, I figured posting my essay as blog number two couldn’t hurt.  I really have not had time for any recreational writing since school started, so chances are that my next few entries will also be cut-paste jobs from various assignments.

Here is my untitled essay on the topic of cheating.  Everyone in class had to write specifically on cheating, but we were free to tackle the topic from our own angle.  I selected an evolutionary basis of cheating (surprised?), and probably could have made this a 20-page paper given enough time.

“Among the many paradoxes of human life, this is perhaps the most peculiar and consequential:  We often behave in ways that are guaranteed to make us unhappy.”

Thus begins Sam Harris’s 2011 essay, appropriately titled “Lying.”  Before I read this recently published essay, I had already been contemplating an approach to cheating (and lying) from an evolutionary perspective.  In pondering the content of my own essay, I began wondering if perhaps the speed of human progress had outpaced the ability of our species to “weed out” unnecessary genes (specifically genes that influence behavior) or if we are currently in an evolutionary transitional phase much like we are in other respects, such as continuing to adjust to our bipedal method of locomotion (in the form of our spine’s propensity for giving us problems and our vulnerability to hernias) and omnivorous digestive tract (as evidenced by the vermiform appendix).

In examining the reasons for cheating, one must examine the reasons for lying.  In Psychology Today, June 2009, Dr. Carl Pickhardt wrote an article that associates each instance of cheating with not one ethical affront but three – sneaking, lying, and stealing (“You sneak to conceal what you are up to…lie about what you have done…and steal credit for performance you did not earn.”).  I believe that most students who make the decision to cheat do not necessarily consciously decide that they want to commit the aforementioned battery of offenses, even though some surveys have shown cheating to be at near-epidemic levels with well over half of high school students engaging in some form of plagiarizing or, more common with the ease and availability of information on the Internet, simple cut-and-paste jobs.  To many students, it seems, cheating is a means to an end, a way to ensure their economic survival in a highly competitive world, and the assumption that “My parents would rather I get dishonest A than an honest B.” (Pickhardt, 2009).  It would appear that from the cheater’s perspective, only one offense – sneaking/cheating – has been committed (and is minimized or justified); stealing is hardly a consideration when the attitude towards information is that “it’s all just floating around out there”; and lying is probably the last thing on a cheater’s mind when the intent is to be convincing enough of the validity of one’s work that lying about the cheating only needs to be addressed on an as-needed basis (and hopefully not ever!).

What purpose could lying and cheating possibly have served our ancestors?  Were they that inherently selfish, to the point that our genes today are still being steered towards a deceptive nature?  Many theories exist, but most involve deception being used by the earliest hominids as a safeguard against rival groups – there was no unconditional trust, no feeling of, “Hey, we’re the same species, let’s work together,” and thus protection of the clan/family took precedence over forming any preemptive alliances.  Looking across other species, we see trickery everywhere:  Camouflaging techniques of mantises and cuttlefish, mimicry apparent in harmless snakes “disguised” as their venomous counterparts or insects masquerading as wasps and ants, and the “brood parasitism” of the infamous cuckoo.  Acknowledging that unintentional and unknowing evolutionary developments such as camouflage can hardly be compared to deliberate, calculated deception, we can soon turn our focus back to our pre-human protagonists – yes, those lying bastards, the ones that might have corrupted our children with their uninhibited immorality!

In his essay, Harris defines a lie as “intentionally mislead[ing] others when they expect honest communication.”  Teachers and professors expect honesty from their students – not just the obvious loathing of cheating to get ahead in their class, but honesty in feedback on lectures and lessons, questions on assignments, and so forth.  In the face of such statistics like above, noting occurrences from one-half to as much as three-quarters engaging in some form of cheating, it would seem that honesty is going the way of the rotary phone.  Actually, instead of making a comparison to a near-obsolete technology, perhaps it would be more appropriate to question if dishonesty is now rewarded in our society, with truly honest people receiving more indifferent treatment than exaltation.

In “Why Be Honest If Honesty Doesn’t Pay,” Amar Bhide and Howard Stevenson illustrate examples of dishonesty in American society being either rewarded or forgiven; well-established and powerful companies oftentimes earn back trust simply by being the entities they are, namely ones that provide large numbers of jobs and are a key part of the economy.  A recent comedy film, The Invention of Lying, turned a fictional world where nobody was capable of lying on its head when the lead character commits the title act, leading to a downward spiral of the world questioning their morals and values, and eventually the need for the establishment of religion to get people to act decent to one another again.  A group of cultural pranksters known as “The Yes Men” attempt to humiliate corporations and politicians by impersonating personnel representing them and by creating phony press conferences and websites.  Furthermore, “there is no compelling economic reason to tell the truth or keep one’s word” (Bhide and Stevenson, 1990), especially when dishonest companies and governments set the bar with their behavior, creating a chain of deceit down to the smaller companies and individuals struggling to get by…“if the big guys on top can’t play fair, why should we?”

Ironically, it appears that not only do we have a biological basis for deceptive behavior, but an existing natural phenomenon (which also doubles as a moral philosophy) known as reciprocal altruism points towards a natural source for honest communication.   Quite simply, reciprocal altruism is a “tit-for-tat,” quid pro quo scenario in which both parties end up better off by both paying into the situation minimally (symbiotic relationships such as those exhibited by “cleaner fish” that remove parasites from larger fish that would normally prey on them, resulting in a meal for themselves – although in a deceptive twist, there exists a fish that mimics the cleaner fish, but is in fact itself a parasite masquerading as beneficial).  This Golden Rule of nature has its parallels in human artifices such as religion and philosophy, a “do unto others” mentality that has popped up independently in some form in nearly every culture (indeed, according to anthropologist Donald Brown’s Human Universals (1991), both positive and negative reciprocity are universal concepts).  While it would be difficult to prove that the most successful liars and cheats are devoid of any genetic inclination towards altruistic behavior, the aptly named psychological concept of self-deception could, in theory, cause the deceiver to become completely unconscious of dishonesty, since not being aware of “immoral” behavior would make it easier to mask telltale signs of deception.

While our evolution may be haunting us with these lingering tendencies to deceive, or at the very least only tell half-truths, our evolution is also steering us towards behavior where extending trust and being trustworthy has a better payoff than just being a selfish ass; whereas the latter would have certainly received “the lion’s share” in a competitive survival scenario, the widespread cooperation that we as a species are beginning to exhibit in this era of a globally connected planet with access to information like never before, coupled with our tremendous decision-making capacity and analytical nature, should allow us to jettison our instinctive impulse to cheat others in order to get ahead.  That said, there will undoubtedly always be some degree of cheating in schools (and everywhere); it is inevitable, much like the fringe ideas and deviant behaviors that have always clung to the coattails of civilization, even in eras of great enlightenment, and have occasionally halted its progress.

As to content, your view of human nature seems rather reductive to me.  The idea that we can trace complex human behaviors back to genetics is, I think, pretty much out of favor.  We don’t, in fact, do much purely by instinct.  Most behavior is learned, and our behaviors are heavily influenced by our cultures.  So I suspect this approach is rather suspect from the beginning.  And we live in our culture, now.  It is unclear whether cheating is a problem today in schools in China, or Africa, or Egypt, or anywhere else.  To suggest there is evolutionary causation, you would need to show commonality across many cultures, today and historically.  And then, one would eventually need to identify a mechanism.  Perhaps closer to the point might be to consider what it is in our culture that makes so many people believe cheating is wrong (even when they do it) and, as Bhide and Stevenson point out, keep most people fundamentally honest even in the face of evidence they will not necessarily be rewarded.

I am a parent.

That is, I have fulfilled my biological duty to our species.  This “duty” I speak of is neither a divine mandate nor the demand of a regime.  My genes have been passed on (and perhaps slightly modified in the process of replicating themselves).  My genes will (more than likely) be passed on through these new vehicles to other transports, much like a perpetual passenger on an Amtrak to the unknown…miss your transfer (fail to procreate) and the entire journey is a failure; keep riding and hitting those transfers, and the sky’s the limit (literally, since inevitably some of our descendants will have to flee this planet for a new home).

Admittedly, though not regrettably, I joined the ranks of parents rather young and unprepared (though certainly not alone).  I was presented with two children before I was 21, which was also a period in my life fraught with soul searching, unhappiness, and a good bit of selfishness.  I wanted desperately to prove my worth as a parent while also trying to figure out who I was and where I was going — in other words, balancing selflessness with narcissism.  This juxtaposition is a hurdle I still encounter, albeit more of a stumbling block these days than a seemingly impassable obstacle as I’ve learned to embrace my traits and adapt them to parenting.

Up until a few years ago, I sincerely believed in a tabula rasa theory of the mind; that is, a preference towards nurture insofar as determining how we develop and who we become.  It makes sense — you are presented with young, presumably malleable minds, and for nearly two decades you are assigned the mission, should you choose to accept it (ahem, deadbeats), of sculpting these brains to retain whatever values you see fit to indoctrinate them with, hoping to set them on the straight and narrow and deliver them not into temptation.  Basically, we want our kids to be like us (while overlooking or deliberately ignoring the fact that no matter how much our parents tried to do the same to us, we eventually swore that we would never be like them, hence making our attempts at parenting an uphill battle to make sure our children are nothing like their grandparents!).  This ingrained philosophy started to crumble, however, after years of self-reflection and realizing that no matter how hard my parents tried, some of my most significant personality traits are pretty far off from the “who” I was raised to be.

Even before I read Steven Pinker‘s The Blank Slate, which satisfactorily demolishes most of the nurture argument, I had a nagging feeling that there was something erroneous about the belief that you could mold your children like lumps of clay (in stark contrast to this blog entry, the first blog I ever wrote — probably archived somewhere on the MySpace account I never use anymore and will more than likely delete soon — was an essay regarding the infinite malleability of minds, which I presume had slight Marxist undertones).  The fact that my soul searching had led me to a position of “staunch atheist” after spending years being raised by a third-generation LCMS minister was the nail in the coffin.  After all, I never truly chose atheism (my personal spiritual journey is a subject for a future entry)…something I’ve been accused of and still am to this day.

Going back to 1999, there I was with my firstborn, overwhelmed yet accepting of this new role I had as father, simultaneously swearing to myself not to raise her the way I was raised, yet agreeing to have her baptized to appease not just a couple family members but nearly every single one, making promises to all those people to raise her as a Christian when I didn’t even believe in that stuff anymore.   I certainly didn’t have a “parenting philosophy” other than to do my best (which, as noted above, was kind of a half-assed best).  I had my second child in late 2000 with a lather/rinse/repeat of the above scenario, and the approach I took to raising them was a very rough-draft prototype of the method I utilize today…let them experience the world and formulate their own opinions in regards to spirituality/religion/philosophy, using myself as a living example that the apple not only falls from the tree, but occasionally has a tendency to roll half an orchard away, only to come to rest against the pear tree or blackberry brambles.

I’m certainly not discouraging anyone from raising their children in the religion they themselves were brought up in; just resign yourselves to the fact that no matter how much time and energy you invest, there’s always a chance it will have been in vain.  “But maybe the kids that turn out ‘wrong’ were just raised ‘wrong,’ and I know I’ll do it right because I’m just how my parents raised ME to be!”  You could argue that…and you can take that gamble, with years and years of your life, thousands and thousands of dollars spent on schools and educational materials to get them on the “right” path, etc.  But it’s still a gamble, especially based on what we know about behavioral genetics and the knowledge gleaned from the various sub-specialties in the field of psychiatry.  If your child DOES turn out to have characteristics you “molded” into them, chances are they inherited a good chunk of your personality!

In The Blank Slate, Pinker quotes a beautiful poem, one that has stuck with me and which I have quoted to friends (with kids) several times of late:

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,
which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them,
but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children
as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite,
and He bends you with His might
that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies,
so He loves also the bow that is stable.

Being that this blog has a focus on parenting as an atheist with a religious upbringing, my work here would be amiss if I did not include some quotes in that regard:

Richard Dawkins, The God Delusion — “I want everybody to flinch whenever we hear a phrase such as ‘Catholic child’ or ‘Muslim child.’  Speak of a ‘child of Catholic parents’ if you like; but if you hear anybody speak of a ‘Catholic child,’ stop them and politely point out that children are too young to know where they stand on such issues, just as they are too young to know where they stand on economics or politics…There is no such thing as a Muslim child.  There is no such thing as a Christian child.”

Dawkins later in the book illustrates damaging effects of indoctrinating children with religion, including school segregation (“Children are educated…with members of a religious in-group and separately from children whose families adhere to other religions.”) and marriage preferences and the taboos associated with “marrying out” of one’s family’s religion.

Daniel C. Dennett, Breaking the Spell — “Religions are transmitted culturally…not through the genes.  You may get your father’s nose and your mother’s musical ability through your genes, but if you get your religion from your parents, you get it the way you get your language, through upbringing.”

Dennett illustrates the need for parents to earn the trust of their children…and the resulting exploitation of that trust that can occur:  “It is in the genetic interests of parents…to inform — not misinform — their young, so it is efficient (and relatively safe) to trust one’s parents.  Once the information superhighway between parent and child is established by genetic evolution, it is ready to be used — or abused — by any agents with agendas of their own, or by any memes that happen to have features that benefit from the biases built into the highway.”

So if you’re raising your child(ren) to be like you and believe like you, chances are that they trust you enough to “go along with it” for as long as they can benefit from your benevolence and maybe discover a few loopholes of their own to exploit.  But, you may be raising a walking antithesis to your worldview, which more than likely won’t become apparent until your spawn are out in the world on their own.  How will you send them out there — naive, or prepared to encounter and absorb the countless worldviews in existence and make an informed decision that “fits” with their inherent traits?

In closing, I will offer my parenting advice:  Ignore parenting advice, especially that of the “experts.”  We made it this far as a species with our only motivation being that of ensuring our genes, carried by our offspring, would make it another generation.  Of course, in today’s globally connected world, a nearly universal society, we have obligations to pass on some values, but even children raised by parents with no values (or, more simply, raised without parents) will pick up values from society.  Remember the pressures your parents placed on you, and compare the person you are now to the person your parents were probably trying to mold you into.  Carry that thought experiment over a generation and apply it to your children, and you will understand that most of your efforts will yield nothing like what you expect, but that will never remove love from the equation.

And no, I do not call my children “atheist,” nor do I raise them to reject all religion.  They certainly know that Daddy is vehemently anti-theist (and occasionally we have pleasant conversations regarding such), and I encourage them to question anything that doesn’t make sense, but for now they’re just children.  They need to experience all the wonder that childhood has to offer, without the trappings of an “Us Versus Them” mentality, and certainly one free of unnecessary fear.

Note:  Replacing every instance or implication of “religion” in this entry with “politics” will not change my message one bit.